Husbands and wives should learn how to settle their quarrels without delay.
I have seen situations where couples allow simple disagreement to fester for days.
Husband is silently hurting, expecting the wife to speak to him first. Same for the wife, hurting and expecting the husband to play the man.
The waiting game leads from one thing to the other. Read this story pls:👇👇👇
A man and his wife had a domestic disagreement one morning. The man said he was so bitter about it, claiming his wife knew she was wrong but refused to apologise. She felt it was a little issue that the husband should overlook easily.
To say “I am sorry, darling”, to her husband was difficult for her.
So many pple are like that. So many wives take their husbands for granted too much. We are humans. Blood flows in the veins!
Three days on, malice reigned in the house.
The husband said he must get that “I am sorry.”
Wife cooked, husband refused to eat.
Everyday he came home with food from eatries. He boycotted matrimonial bed. Husband found new friends in the children. Same with wife, but the children were too small to break the ice.
One Sunday, they went to church in their different cars but sat side by side during service, pretending to be jolly good husband and wife.
After the service, husband went home with the children while she waited for women’s meeting.
That day, Satan decided to enter the crevice they allowed in their home.
The husband was home already. When he perfunctorily checked his phone, his wife had called him thrice. He disregarded calling her back out of malice. The wife drove in some forty minutes later. He saw Usman opening the gate for her as his phone went on ringing. He checked it. It was his wife. She was in her car at the garage already. What is she calling me for? Foolish and stubborn wife! He said and ignored her calls.
The call went on for a while. He ignored it as he sat with the TV. Thirty minutes later, she did not come in. Something told him to go and check. Is she still in the car? Yes she must be there. He called Usman, Is madam in the car? Few minutes later, Usman rushed in. Madam dey sleep inside the car o. That was when he woke up and rushed downstairs.
She was Asthmatic! Could she be having her usual attack?
Could she have forgotten her inhaler?
He quickly took the inhaler and rushed downstairs.
When he got there, she was almost breathless. Usman and husband quickly carried her to the back seat and off, he sped like a bat out of hell, to a clinic nearby.
Madam was confirmed dead!
If he had picked her call early enough, probably she could have been saved.
When you leave domestic disagreement to fester for too long, it leads to greater evil.
The Husband is weeping mad, blaming himself…l killed my wife!
Only God knows how many wives, husbands, children have died such a needless death.
Couples must forgive one another. No matter how angry you are with your wife, in your office, in her shop, Please call her at least three times during the day, call even when you have no reason to call.
If all you could say is “Where are you?” “Wetin dey?” “Anything for your boyfriend?”
A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE