Are You Building A Good Name For Your Children Or A Fat Bank Account?
Many today work tirelessly just to earn enough money they will leave for their children. In the process, they do all kinds of atrocities to earn that money.
Many have killed; lied; cheated; stole; duped people/company; supressed others; sat on people’s Files, promotions, sold their consciences; betrayed a friend; etc; just to have money, without thought of legacy, posterity, Nemesis; and life after.
Some got away with all these vices, some paid with their lives. Whereas some, their children are the ones suffering the evil they committed years back. So sad😭.
The Most Important In life
An adage says,” Good name is better than Riches and Gold”. And the Bible equally stated it too these quotations below👇
Proverbs 22:1-2 – A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favour rather than silver and gold.
Proverbs 10:7 – The memory of the just is blessed: but the name of the wicked shall rot.
Ecclesiastes 7:1 – A good name is better than precious ointment; and the day of death than the day of one’s birth.
Philippians 2:22 – But ye know the proof of him, that, as a son with the father, he hath served with me in the gospel.
Proverbs 22:1 – A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favour rather than silver and gold.
Colossians 2:8 – Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
Now, let me share with you a life story l got from a friend. It shows the reward of keeping good name, leaving legacies, working uprightly, being dedicated to duties, helping the helpless without looking for reward.
True Life Story of a man who was financially poor but fabulously rich in integrity.
At the point of death, a renowned civil servant, Tom Smith called his children and after praying for them, advised them to follow his footsteps so that they can have their peace of mind in life.
The elderst child, Elizabeth, a graduate, looked at the other siblings and yelled, “Daddy, its unfortunate you are dying without a penny in your bank account. It is a pity you’re leaving us the same wretched life you lived.
Personally, I can’t emulate you, she continued. Other fathers in the neighbourhood that you tag as being corrupt, thieves of public funds left houses and properties for their children; See the kind of comfortable life they live and the schools they attend. You’re dying after 35 years of public service with just one rickety car.
The only honour you have in this room is the citation of an award you won as the best Public Service Accountant when we were not even born; Even this house we live in is a rented apartment, sorry, I can’t emulate you.
You’re dying of a common disease and we can’t even fly you outside the country like the others do. How can we cater for our mum and the little ones by living like you did in this part of the world. How? Daddy please let’s chart our own course, let’s paddle our own canoe”
Few days later, their father gave up the spirit.
Gold At The End Of The Tunnel
Three years after, Elizabeth finished her Masters Degree. She applied for a job and went for an interview in a multinational company.
The interview panel had already penciled down a candidate for the highly coveted post but wanted to complete the formality of interviewing all applicants on the list.
As soon as Elizabeth sat before the interview panel, the Chairman of the committee looked through her CV, nodded and asked,
“Hi Miss Smith, tell us a bit about yourself” and Elizabeth replied, “I am Elizabeth Smith. My Dad, the late Tom Smith was the Regional Head accountant of the National Insurance, and also served as Administrator of Public Health for many yesrs.” But the Chairman cuts in, Oh my God, you are the daughter of Mr Tom Smith? I can’t believe it. He turned to other members and said “This Smith man was the one that signed my membership form into the Institute of Chartered Administrators when he served in our district in the North and his recommendation earned me where I am today. It was really difficult getting a man in such high office to do that during those years. You needed to be rich to get your form signed but the amazing thing is, he did all these free. I didn’t even know his address, he never knew me from Adam. He just did it for me.
I returned to his office after a year only to hear he was transferred. That was it and I never heard from him again. He turned to Elizabeth; “I have no question for you, consider yourself as having gotten this job, resume tomorrow, your letter will be waiting for you. For how your dad remained honest and served everyone with diligence, I trust you’ll follow his path in this job.
The Unmerited Blessing.
Elizabeth Smith became the Corporate Affairs Manager of the company with two cars, one official and one for private use, attached to the office, with a duplex and two drivers and a salary of £250,000 per month excluding allowances and other costs when she travels outside the country.
After two years of working in the company, the Group Managing Director of the company came from America to announce his intention to resign and needed a replacement. A personality with high integrity was sought after, again the company’s Consultant nominated Elizabeth Smith.
In an interview, she was asked the secret of her success and the sudden sky rocketing profile. And in tears, she replied, my Daddy paved these ways for me. It was after he died that I knew that he was financially poor but fabulously rich in integrity, discipline and honesty.
She was asked again, why she is weeping since she is no longer a kid as to miss her dad still after a long time. She replied, “At the point of death, I insulted my dad for being an honest man of integrity. I hope he will forgive me in his grave now. I didn’t work for all these, he did it for me to just walk in.
Following His footsteps….
Don’t give in to fate In life.
So finally she was asked,” Will you follow your father’s foot steps as he requested? And her simple answer was, “l have already been doing that. I have met a number of people after his death and I haven’t seen or heard anyone say a word against my dad’s life in public service. I now adore the man, I have a big picture of him in my living room and my office. He deserves whatever I have after God.
Are you like Tom Smith? It pays to build a name, the reward doesn’t come quickly but it will come however long it may take and it lasts longer.
Integrity, discipline, self control and fear of God makes man wealthy, not the fat bank account, luxurious cars and mansions. Leave a good heritage for your children and the next generation. Are you building a good name for your children & or a fat bank account? Money fades, fame goes, cars get out of system but a good name stays on forever.
Words of Wisdom from Darrah
Hear what Darrah Brustein, the founder Network under 40 says about leaving it right (Reputation).
Pop quiz: What form of currency never fluctuates with the market?
Answer? Your reputation.
Your actions + what others say about you = your reputation. This small formula is the most powerful leverage you have in business — and in life, for that matter.
While people say you shouldn’t be concerned about what others think, I’m wary of that advice. Whether it’s a vendor cutting you a great deal, a hiring manager considering offering you a position, or someone with purchasing power, others often decide your fate. All it takes is a small sway from a trusted contact to either get you in or push you out.
To improve your reputation
Follow these 5 out of 10 steps Darrah listed out
1.) Do what you say you will do
2.) Go out of your way to help others reach their goals.
3.) Make other people look good.
4.) Go a step beyond what is expected….and l add; when one asks for 1 help, offer 2 helps 😀. Sounds foolish right? ….but this small gesture go a long way and makes you stand out. Time will tell.
5.) Act with integrity- This should be your foundation of everything you do.
6.) Be likeable- That is being you. Smile more. The opposite is unlikeable. That is being fake. This doesn’t pay, do avoid it.
Remember, to work out your salvation with fear and trembling. And that is working righteously and keeping clean hands.
God bless you 🌹❤️